Bucket lists
A shared bucket list you both add to and check off
Places to eat, things to do, trips to take, recipes to try — keep them in one live list you and your partner build together. Add ideas from your phone, paste links from anywhere on the web, save real spots from Discover with directions, and cross them off as you make the memories.
Free to start · No app to download · Your partner joins with just a name
Built for two
Both add & check off in real time
Real places
Saved with directions & phone
One link
No account for your partner
The problem
Sound familiar? These are the pain points people search for before they find a better way.
- "We should go there" ideas vanish in the group chat scroll
- You and your partner each keep a Notes list that never matches
- Screenshots of restaurants with no phone number or directions saved
- No easy way to check things off together as you actually do them
- Trip plans scattered across texts, tabs, and half-finished docs
What you get
Two people, one live list
Both of you add ideas and check them off from your own phone — updates show up instantly for both. No more mismatched Notes.
No account for your partner
Send one link. They join with just a name — nothing to download, no sign-up. Only the creator needs a free account.
Organized by topic
Group ideas into Places to eat, Things to do, Trips, Recipes, or any topic you choose. Each topic is its own mini-list.
Add from any URL
Paste a link from anywhere on the web — articles, products, travel ideas, inspiration — and save it straight to your Lyst.
Browse Picks explore
See travel ideas, recipes, decor, and inspiration others save from the web — then save your own with Add from URL.
Save real places from Discover
Browse local businesses and places, then save them to your bucket list with the phone number, category, and directions attached.
Directions & tap-to-call built in
Every saved spot keeps its location, so when it's time to go you get one-tap calling and map directions.
Review after you go
Check an item off, then leave a quick review so you remember what you loved and your list gets smarter over time.
How it works
- 1
Create a shared bucket list
Pick a few topics like Places to eat, Things to do, or Trips — or start from a blank list.
- 2
Add ideas from your phone
Type items in, or save real businesses and places from Discover with phone numbers and directions attached.
- 3
Send one link to your partner
They tap it, enter a name, and start adding and checking off — no account needed on their end.
- 4
Check things off together
Cross items off as you go and leave a review of the spots worth repeating. Everything stays in sync.
Discover → bucket list
Find a spot, save it, go later
Browse local businesses and places on Discover by city and category. Tap Save to bucket listand the spot lands in the right topic with its phone number and directions ready. Visit when you're free, then leave a review.
- Directions attached to every saved place
- One-tap call when you're ready to book
- Leave a review after you visit
Built for
Bucket lists for every kind of plan
Start with a template built for how you and your people actually plan.
- Shared bucket list appOne live bucket list you both add to and check off
- Bucket list for couplesYour relationship bucket list, in one shared link
- Date night ideas listNever run out of date night ideas again
- Travel bucket listPlan the trip together — one shared travel bucket list
- Restaurant wishlistEvery restaurant you want to try, in one shared list
- Things to do listSave things to do near you — and actually do them
- Recipes to try listA shared list of recipes you both actually want to cook
- Roommate shared listOne shared list for everything the house wants to do
- Save places from DiscoverFind a spot on Discover, save it to your bucket list
- Save any linkPaste a URL and save it as a pick on your Lyst
- Browse saved picksA visual feed of links people actually save
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Frequently asked questions
- What is a shared bucket list app?
- It's one live checklist two or more people share. Everyone adds ideas — places to eat, things to do, trips to take — and checks them off from their own phone, with everything staying in sync.
- Does my partner need to create an account?
- No. You send one link and they join with just a name. Only the person who creates the list needs a free ReferLyst account.
- Can we save links from the internet?
- Yes. Use Add from URL to paste travel blogs, recipes, products, or inspiration straight into your list. Browse Picks explore to see what others save from the web.
- Is it free?
- Yes. You can create a shared bucket list for free. Upgrade to Pro only if you want multiple lists or extra features.
- Can we save real restaurants and places?
- Yes. Browse Discover, tap Save to bucket list on any business, and it's added with the phone number, category, and directions so you're ready to go.
- Is it good for long-distance couples?
- It's one of the best uses. Plan your next visit together by building a shared list of date spots and things to do before you're even in the same city.
- Can more than two people use one list?
- Yes. Roommates, friend groups, and trip crews all share a single list — everyone joins from one link with just a name.
Start your shared bucket list free
Add ideas, check them off, and save real places together on ReferLyst. No app to download — your partner joins with just a name.